Over 20 years together, 2 daughters and a grandson and 7 homes later, we know how happiness can be and not be. It is not as hard as you think. Douglas (right) started as a cook and became a nanny who became an estate/lifestyle manager. Roger (left) from waiter to dad to real estate broker to executive assistant at a start up clean energy company We have done it all and are here to help. Everyday should bring you joy!